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You can't choose, and every person you ask leaves you exactly where you were. That is not an information problem. FREE - The Ten-Year Question card: https://resources.francoisesterhuizen.com/ten-year-question/ Work with me: https://www.francoisesterhuizen.com/work-with-me In this fourth video of the Getting Unstuck series, I show you what you are actually collecting when you ask around (confirmation, not information), the two questions that work like a brake you are pressing yourself, the guarantee hiding inside the word right, why the first hard part convinces you that you chose wrong, and the ten-year question that lets you choose today, standing right where you are. The Ten-Year Question is one page for choosing when both roads could work. Stop asking which is right, and ask which road takes you closer to the person you want to be: https://resources.francoisesterhuizen.com/ten-year-question/ THE GETTING UNSTUCK SERIES Part one, How to Break the 4-Step Loop That Keeps You Stuck: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IdZGSQr9kBE Part two, How to Stop Procrastinating on What Matters Most: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l5ihPiQ_QOI Part three, How to Start When Everything Feels Too Much: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mKLdHsbgslY Part four (this video), 'What If I Choose Wrong?' Is the Wrong Question CHAPTERS 0:00 Why you can't choose 4:08 The guarantee 5:05 The pivot 7:57 The better question 9:07 Cape Town, 2008 13:15 Your work this week FREE RESOURCES The Headlights System (from part three): https://resources.francoisesterhuizen.com/headlights-system/ All free resources: https://resources.francoisesterhuizen.com/ MORE Work with me: https://www.francoisesterhuizen.com/work-with-me Fresh Perspective, my weekly newsletter: https://francoisesterhuizen.us5.list-manage.com/subscribe?u=097ed8fb3c6e3c943817d0d80&id=7a7438d8f4 My website: https://www.francoisesterhuizen.com I am Francois Esterhuizen. I work with capable, responsible people who are stuck somewhere that does not respond to more effort. This channel is where that work happens in public.

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Relief now, a bigger bill later. Tests, not tasks. And now you can see the price tag. Full episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l5ihPiQ_QOI Free Pattern Breaker workbook: https://resources.francoisesterhuizen.com/procrastination-pattern-breaker/ #Shorts

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Shame is feeding it. Forgiveness takes the weight off the hook. Full episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l5ihPiQ_QOI Free Pattern Breaker workbook: https://resources.francoisesterhuizen.com/procrastination-pattern-breaker/ #Shorts

You sit down to start, and all of it arrives at once. Overwhelm is not the size of the task. It is the carrying. FREE - The Headlights System card: https://resources.francoisesterhuizen.com/headlights-system/ Work with me: https://www.francoisesterhuizen.com/work-with-me In this third video of the Getting Unstuck series, I show you what overwhelm actually is (it is the carrying, not the task), the one distinction that shrinks any mountain down to something your hands know what to do with, a two-minute test that tells you when a move is finally the right size, and the deciding-once principle that makes starting almost automatic. The Headlights System is one page. It takes the thing that feels like too much and turns it into your next visible move: https://resources.francoisesterhuizen.com/headlights-system/ THE GETTING UNSTUCK SERIES Part one, How to Break the 4-Step Loop That Keeps You Stuck: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IdZGSQr9kBE Part two, How to Stop Procrastinating on What Matters Most: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l5ihPiQ_QOI Part three (this video), How to Start When Everything Feels Too Much Part four, 'What If I Choose Wrong?' Is the Wrong Question: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ln10DW4kbko CHAPTERS 0:00 The setup 1:01 Driving at night 1:58 The carrying 5:00 The next visible move 7:21 Deciding once 9:50 Your next sixty metres FREE RESOURCES The Procrastination Pattern Breaker (from part two): https://resources.francoisesterhuizen.com/procrastination-pattern-breaker/ All free resources: https://resources.francoisesterhuizen.com/ MORE Work with me: https://www.francoisesterhuizen.com/work-with-me Fresh Perspective, my weekly newsletter: https://francoisesterhuizen.us5.list-manage.com/subscribe?u=097ed8fb3c6e3c943817d0d80&id=7a7438d8f4 My website: https://www.francoisesterhuizen.com I am Francois Esterhuizen. I work with capable, responsible people who are stuck somewhere that does not respond to more effort. This channel is where that work happens in public.

The dishes can't say anything about you. The things that matter carry a question. Full episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l5ihPiQ_QOI Free Pattern Breaker workbook: https://resources.francoisesterhuizen.com/procrastination-pattern-breaker/ #Shorts

Your mind runs a weather service for feelings, and it exaggerates on purpose. Full episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l5ihPiQ_QOI Free Pattern Breaker workbook: https://resources.francoisesterhuizen.com/procrastination-pattern-breaker/ #Shorts